Finding my inner compass

10 years ago, I made some decisions that shifted the course of my life.

Up to that point, I'd been following a clear path.

It was a path I’d seen many others travel.

Marked by the standard indicators of security, success and social acceptance.

Following it felt safe.

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But I couldn't shake this feeling that it wasn’t the right path for me.

Something was missing.

Not something material, but something deeper.

I felt disconnected.

From myself, from others.

From a sense of purpose and contentment.

So for the first time in my life, I made some decisions that took me off that clear path.

And landed me somewhere off trail.

Needing to find a new way forward.

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Initially, the change-up felt exhilarating.

But it quickly turned to feeling really freaking scary.

There were times I felt completely lost and doubted my sense of direction.

Days when I desperately wanted to return to the safety of my status quo.

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But I stayed the course.

And was launched into a period of massive personal growth.

Charting my own way forward required me to uncover who I really was.

(Beyond the achievements and relationships that I’d always relied on to define myself).

I started getting to know my world of emotions, beliefs and values.

I discovered what truly mattered to me.

I encountered incredible mentors who shared their wisdom.

This all came together to form my inner compass.

And with it in hand, I gradually learned to be myself, and to trust myself.

I continue to use these tools and insights every day as I navigate life and leadership.

Especially when external circumstances toss me off trail.

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This is an example of the inner work that often sits below our surface-level changes.

And a glimpse into the work I often do with my coaching clients.

We go below the surface of the specific topic or challenge that’s present.

Whether it’s a major life change, leadership decision, career transition or a seemingly minor habit change.

My clients gain clarity on who they are and what matters to them.

We explore their sense of identity and the beliefs that underlie it.

We discuss their values and vision.

We apply tools and practices that deepen their understanding of their emotions and tendencies.

So they can use that wisdom to guide their unique way forward.

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It’s hard, deep work. And it’s so worth doing.

Because that insight can stay with them and guide them, wherever they go.

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If this resonates and you’d like to learn more about my coaching programs, please reach out. I’d be honoured to support you.